January Hibernation

I have been perfecting my hibernation skills quite a lot this month.

For the most part it has been extremely enjoyable, especially during the snowstorm yesterday, but today I woke up and felt over it. I'm done hibernating.

We have one more week of January left!

This morning, I had a follow-up to check if my new-new-new IUD is still in the right place, and of course it is. It's still in the right place because it was finally put in the right place to begin with.

So now I don't have to worry about it anymore.

Insurance got right on my request to check on overpayment to the gyn, and I am getting $105 refunded.

That's a LOT to overpay!

Don't rely on dr offices to check your benefits and coverage; they often don't check and just go with whatever they guess. It got resolved faster than I thought and all is well.

Tonight I am meeting Daya for dinner. She came home for a little while on Friday to talk.

I guess not talking to me anymore couldn't last, it wasn't working out for Daya.

This is about when I thought she'd probably make contact.

She's going through some stuff, we both disagree about the note.

I think she should never have written it, and it gave her some relief to do it so she's not sorry.

I told her she has to find better ways of finding relief.

Anyhow.

The Juilliard bill is now paid, they were chasing her and she was.... maybe.... buying herself some time.

I do want to move forward in a positive way with her and maybe now we are.

She has people helping her with her difficulties, I cannot ever say the right thing to her and that's ok because finally she's accepting the help she needs. So I'm just.... not worried about it. It isn't my job to fix anything; she's an adult who is free to create her life the way she wants to. And now it really is off me and that is a very good thing. So I feel good.

Here are a couple of snow pictures.

Of course the storm wasn't nearly as dramatic as it was communicated.