Drawing was cancelled tonight!
Oh well.
Daya had dance in the city.
While she was in dance I instituted a new housework system....
We alternate with cat litter but she will ask me if I did it on my days- I don't like that, I'm not accountable to her like that. (And yes, I do it.) I pay all the bills and do pretty much all the work as it is.
I haven't been on a set housework schedule.... ever. I just do it when it needs doing.
There have been a lot of reasons for this and they are valid reasons, but now we are in different times.
I'm now doing 100% of the housework and Daya should be contributing in a meaningful way.
It's time.
So now I have charts.
I should have done it in Excel but I still need to fix my printer.
We're going half and half now.
This will be great on all levels- Daya will learn how to do it and to live with others when she is out on her own, she is accountable to contribute to the household in a more balanced way than just benefiting from the resources, and I'll have less to do.
Oh well.
Daya had dance in the city.
While she was in dance I instituted a new housework system....
We alternate with cat litter but she will ask me if I did it on my days- I don't like that, I'm not accountable to her like that. (And yes, I do it.) I pay all the bills and do pretty much all the work as it is.
I haven't been on a set housework schedule.... ever. I just do it when it needs doing.
There have been a lot of reasons for this and they are valid reasons, but now we are in different times.
I'm now doing 100% of the housework and Daya should be contributing in a meaningful way.
It's time.
So now I have charts.
I should have done it in Excel but I still need to fix my printer.
We're going half and half now.
This will be great on all levels- Daya will learn how to do it and to live with others when she is out on her own, she is accountable to contribute to the household in a more balanced way than just benefiting from the resources, and I'll have less to do.
She will know what is expected. No question.
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