Everything is happening at the same time and I can't catch my breath.
I have to get through the next six weeks.
Daya's MRI results show a bone lesion injury and fluid in the joint, so she is on complete elbow rest for six weeks plus physical therapy. That means no weight at all on her elbow. she can still dance but some warm-ups she cannot do, and she cannot do acro.
In addition Daya has been very high anxiety including panic attacks....it has happened in school. So she needs a little help and I am concerned. The high anxiety is her personality, it is not from her schedule. It has happened both when she has had an empty schedule and a full one. She prefers being at dance anyhow, it helps more than if she wasn't there.
I found a holistic functional neurologist (who is also a chiropractor) down in the Village. We went for the initial appointment. He said her parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous systems are out of balance and this makes a lot of sense to me. He does not medicate; rather he works to strengthen the parasympathetic nervous system which is the one that should be active most of the time.
Daya has to go for 12 appointments over the next six weeks. 12. TWELVE!! He does take my insurance but I have to pay for the last 4 because my deductible resets in January. So that will be $400.
Daya has physical therapy as well, they also want her in 2 times a week...I said no we can't. She'll have to do it at home. I was able to book 4 appointments for her through the end of the year.
We both like the arm bike.
She had a dentist appointment, then an orthodontist appointment (I never go to those).
Plus dance.
It is ridiculous. I do not like being this crazy-busy.
Thankfully I won't have to go to most of her neurologist appointments. She can go herself. Several of them are in the morning so we can take the train in together and she can go down to the Village and I can go to work. Then she'll just go to school late with a dr note.
I did miss her dentist appointment-- I was supposed to work from home that day but I had an unexpected 8am meeting I had to be in the office for. So I left early and told Daya to meet me at the dentist. She got there on time and I waited 20 minutes for the bus and missed the whole thing. When I finally arrived Daya was finished with the appointment (perfect checkup), had filled out the postcard for next appointment, AND signed the insurance papers!! (I guess that was ok since the dentist said so)
Delegation.
Kids are so very capable when you delegate stuff to them.
Daya is amazing.